Islaam-Elevation of Women's Status

by Shaikh Ali Al-Timimi

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             Islaam - Elevation of Women's Status
 
                              by
                     Shaikh Ali Al-Timimi
 
     Assalaamu 'Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuhu
 Al hamdu lillaah was salaatu was salaamu 'alaa rasoolillaah,
                        'amma ba'd:
 
The  topic  that  I  was  asked  to  discuss  here  at  McGill
University  is the elevation of the status of women in Islaam.
Many, upon hearing the title of this lecture, might assume  it
to be an oxymoron because the prevalent idea - at least in the
West - is that Islaam does not elevate the  status  of  women,
but  that  Islaam  oppresses  and  suppresses women. So people
might find the title in itself to be shocking or  a  curiosity
at least.
 
In discussing this topic - since it appears to me that this is
a mixed audience of Muslims and non-Muslims - I'd like to make
my remarks  and  comments  brief.    I  will take no more than
thirty  to  forty  five  minutes,  and  then  allow   you   an
opportunity to ask your questions. Perhaps the question/answer
session  might  be  more  fruitful  in   addressing   specific
accusations, understandings or misunderstandings regarding the
status of women in Islaam.
 
As we all know, in the  world  today,  there  are  -  for  the
overwhelming majority of humanity - basically two world views.
These two views are often  in  conflict  -  not  only  on  the
personal  level  where  individual  human  beings  are  making
choices, but also on the international level in terms  of  the
debate  over  the  authenticity  and  correctness of these two
world views.
 
The first world view, which I am sure most of us are aware of,
is the  Western liberal view.  A view which claims to draw its
roots from the Judeo-Christian tradition that  probably,  upon
investigation,  is more well rooted in the ideas that appeared
after the reformation; ideas that are rooted in secularism and
the  world  view  that  appeared thereafter during the 'era of
enlightenment'.
 
The second view is that of the Muslims  -  the  Islamic  world
view,  and  this view says that its roots and ideas lie in the
revelation given by God (or Allah in Arabic)  to  the  prophet
Muhammad (sallallaahu  'alayhi wa sallam).  Those who proclaim
this view say that it can be used by humanity during all  ages
and   times,  and  that  its  relevance  and  benefit  is  not
restricted to a certain period of  time,  geographic  area  or
certain race  of human beings.  Likewise, the adherents of the
first  view  ,that  of  Western  secularism  and  the  liberal
tradition,  beleive  that their world view, ideas, culture and
civilization are the best for humanity.
 
Some of you might have read a book that came out a  few  years
ago   by  an  American  author  of  Japanese  decent  (Francis
Fukayama) called The End of Time.  He basically put forth  the
theory  that  human  development  in  terms  of  its ideas has
concluded with this final period of  liberal  secular  thought
and nothing more will come to humanity. However in his book he
adds that that the only  part  of  the  world  which  has  not
adopted  this  secular  human  view  is  the Islamic world and
proposes that there will  be  a  conflict  in  terms  of  this
ideology in the Islamic world.
 
With  that brief introduction, one of the topics of contention
between these two worlds views, that of  the  secular  liberal
humanist  in  the  West  and  the  Islamic tradition, concerns
women. What is the position and status of women? How are women
looked  to? Are women elevated in one culture and oppressed in
another?
 
The Western view is that women are elevated only in  the  West
and  that  they  are  getting  more  and  more rights with the
passage of time, while their sisters  -  they  say  -  in  the
Islamic world  are  still  being  suppressed.  The Muslims who
they encounter say that in actuality it is the Islamic  system
that  provides  the true freedoms for men and women alike, and
women in the West as well as men, are deceived into an idea of
freedom  which  really doesn't exist. What I'd like to discuss
this evening is exactly  how  Islaam  looks  to  women.    And
therefore  my discussion will be more upon - what we might say
for the lack of a  better  term  -  the  philosophical  basis,
rather  than  the  individual  practices  which  vary from one
country to the other.  How  women  are  understood  in  Islaam
cannot  be properly understood - and this is more significant,
I feel - unless one understands exactly what we might call the
philosophical  basis or ideological understanding - since this
is really a theological concept.
 
First, let's review how exactly  women  were  thought  of  and
understood  in  the western tradition, to compare and contrast
perspectives. We know that the western tradition  sees  itself
as  the  intellectual  inheritors  of the Greek tradition that
existed before the prophet Jesus Christ (peace be  upon  him),
and  so  therefore  many of the intellectual traditions of the
West are found to some degree in the  writings  of  the  early
Greek philosophers like Aristotle, Plato and so forth.
 
How  did  they  look  towards  women?  What  were the ideas of
Aristotle and Plato towards women?  When one reviews the works
of these early Greek philosophers, he finds that they had very
disparaging views of women.  Aristotle in his writings  argued
that  women  were not full human beings and that the nature of
woman was not that of a full human person.  As a result, women
were  by  nature deficient, not to be trusted and to be looked
down upon.  In fact, writings describe that the free women  in
many  aspects  of  the Greek society - except for the very few
women of the elite classes -  had  positions  no  better  than
animals and slaves.
 
This  Aristotelian view of women was later carried on into the
early Christian tradition of the Catholic church. Saint Thomas
of  Aquinas  in his writings proposed that women were the trap
of Satan. The issue of Adam and Eve added a dimension  to  the
earlier  Greek ideas of Aristotle; women were the cause of the
downfall of man and therefore were Satan's trap and should  be
looked  at  with caution and weariness because they caused the
first downfall of humanity and all  thus  evil  precedes  from
women. This type of thought was persistent within the writings
of the Church fathers throughout the Middle Ages.    In  their
writings we find this theme proposed in one aspect or another.
However, after the Protestant reformation  Europe  decided  to
free  itself  from  the  shackles  and  chains of the Catholic
church.  Ideas  which  have  been  entitled  as  the  Age   of
Enlightenment  or thought of as such, caused them to feel that
they needed to free themselves from many of these ideas.  Some
of  these ideas were scientific in nature, that the earth goes
around the sun, instead of the sun  going  around  the  earth;
theological  in  nature,  as in the writings of Martin Luther;
and also social in nature,  like  the  position  of  women  in
society.   However,  the  writers  of  the Enlightenment still
carried this basic theme that was not much of a switch - women
where not  full  human  beings.    French  writers  during the
revolution, like Rousseau,  Voltaire  and  others,  looked  at
women as  a  burden  that needed to be taken care of.  This is
why I believe it's Rousseau in  his  book  "Emile",  which  he
wrote  concerning the education of women, proposed a different
form of education for women based upon  the  fact  that  women
were unable to understand what men were able to understand.
 
This is  the tradition that the West inherited and  thereafter
we find in the 1800's the first writings  appearing  by  women
and  some  men calling for the change of these ideas. And with
this we have the origins of the first feminine movements.  One
of the first books written was the "Vindication for the Rights
of Women" by Mary Walsencraft which appeared  in  the  1800's.
Thereafter  the  tradition  of  women receiving certain rights
came.  The first of these were basically legal rights  because
until  the 1800's women were not able to own property and were
not able to dispose of their wealth as men did.   It  is  very
well  known  that  the  first  laws  that allowed women to own
property in the United States or in Europe  appeared  only  in
the last couple decades of the 1800's.
 
The  Industrial  Revolution  caused  another  impetus, another
search, to this feminist movement.  Women  in  the  Industrial
Revolution,  especially England, were forced to labor for many
hours in the coal mines and so forth, and would receive no pay
whatsoever compared to men.  So therefore the first calling of
the movement was that people who work the same amount of hours
deserved the same amount of money or pay.
 
Finally  a  break  occurred  in  this century of basically all
which is understood from the Western  tradition.  Coming  from
the  latter  feminist  movement which appeared after World War
II, a new movement called for the emancipation  of  women  not
only  in  terms of legal rights but it also questioned some of
the morals of society and called for greater  sexual  freedoms
for  women and men alike. It contended that basically a lot of
problems were caused by the institution of  marriage  and  the
ideas of family and so forth. People wrote concerning the need
to break from these.  And finally in the 1990's, the prevalent
argument  in  the  West is that we should discuss genders, not
sexes. This idea was expressed recently in a book  which  came
out  a  year  ago  called  "The  Age  of Extremes". The author
discusses the idea that there is no difference between male or
female and  that  gender  is  so  only due to environment.  So
therefore we can change the environment so that men could take
the roles of women and women take the roles of men by changing
the education and climate. This is where it has ended up  now.
So  we  find  in this 2500 year old western tradition, we come
from the first extreme which  was  expressed  by  the  Greeks,
where  women  were  denied  their  essential humanity, to this
extreme expressed today where there is no differences  between
the   sexes  and  it  is  an  issue  of  gender,  climate  and
environment. This is, of course, a very brief summary  of  the
first  world  view. I didn't do justice to those 2500 years in
just those few minutes, but it just gives us an idea.
 
The other view which I would like to talk about in more detail
is the  Islamic  view.    How does Islaam look at the issue of
women?  Well, first of all we should understand  that  Muslims
unlike,  for  instance,  the  Greek philosophers or the French
writers after the French revolution, do not  feel  that  their
concepts,  ideas  and  beliefs  are  those  of fellow men. But
rather they believe that  what  they  are  taught,  what  they
believe,  what they practice, and all that is tied to this, is
part of a divine revelation given to them by God.  And so, its
truth  and  veracity  is  not questionable because of it being
revelation from God. The argument is that God knows best  that
which He  created.    He  created human beings, He is a God of
wisdom, and a God of all knowledge and so therefore  He  knows
what is best.  And He decrees that which is best for humanity,
His creatures. Therefore, Muslims try to live by a code of law
which is an expression of that belief.
 
Now I don't want to discuss the various details of the code of
law because that, I feel, would not really benefit us in  this
lecture.  Although  perhaps some of that might come out in the
question and answer session and I'll be glad to entertain  any
questions you might have.  But what I would like to discuss is
how does Islaam look  at  women  i.e.  what  is  womanhood  in
Islaam?   Did  Muslims believe like the early Greek writers or
early church fathers that women were not  full  human  begins?
Did  they  feel  that  women  where Satan's trap, so therefore
should  be  shunned  and  looked  at  as  something  evil  and
dangerous?  How  did  they perceive women?  Upon investigating
into the traditions of Islaam which is, as I  said,  based  on
revelation  known as the Qur'aan, we find that it becomes very
clear that Muslims are taught  that  men  and  women  share  a
single  humanity  -  that they are equal in their humanity and
that there is no difference in the amount of human  nature  in
them.  We might now take that for granted, but as I explained,
the initial western civilization was based on  the  fact  that
women were not full human beings.
 
So  this  being something that was taught 1400 years ago was a
revolutionary idea in the sense that it  is  only  within  the
last  100 years or so that the issue of women being full human
beings  has  come  to  be  accepted  in  western  intellectual
circles.   Initially,  women  were  not  considered full human
beings.
 
The Qur'aan in describing the origins of  human  beings  tells
them,  the  translation  of  which  would be something like "O
humanity!  Verily we have created you from a single male and a
single  female,  and  have made you into tribes and peoples so
that you may know one another. Verily the  most  honorable  of
you  are those who are most pious with God."[49:13] This verse
in the Qur'aan teaches that humans come from a single male and
a single  female.    The  indication here is that the male and
female in terms of their human nature are at an  equal  level.
Likewise  another  verse, from a chapter which is known in the
Qur'aan as the chapter of Women - because most of  the  issues
discussed  there are laws dealing with women - starts off with
a verse which could be translated as "O  humanity!  Verily  We
have created you from a single soul, and have made from it its
mate," this is a reference to Adam and  Eve,  "and  have  made
from  both  of  them many people, men and women, and scattered
them throughout the earth."[4:1] So here again is the issue of
men  and  women  and  all  human  beings  coming from a single
source, a single family, a single set of parents.  This  shows
that women share in full humanity with men.
 
Likewise   in   the   traditions   of   the  Prophet  Mohammad
(sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) - which is the  second  source
of  the  Islaamic religion - we find that the Prophet Mohammad
(sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said in a Hadith  that  indeed
verily  women  are  the  twin  halves  of men. The Arabic word
shaqaa'iq,  which I translated as twin  halves,  means  taking
something  and splitting it in half. The understanding is that
there is a single humanity, a single essence which is  shared,
and  there  are  twin  halves  of that - one is man and one is
women.  This is repeated often in the Qur'aan.  The  words  of
the Prophet  Mohammad  (sallallaahu  'alayhi   wa sallam) also
emphasize this. As I said, this is a very important concept to
understand  when  one  reflects  on  how  traditional  western
civilization looked at women as not being  full  partners  and
not  sharing in humanity. Although now, we might not find much
surprise to that because it is a given perhaps  that  men  and
women  are  full human beings. But this is something that is a
late occurrence in western traditions.
 
Let us take it to another step, what is the aim  of  humanity?
What  is the purpose for which human beings exist on earth, to
what ends do they strive? What will  occur  to  them  if  they
strive  to  those ends and what will occur to them if they did
not strive to those ends?  Since Islaam is  a  religion  which
sees  itself  as  revelation  from  God and the truth, Muslims
would feel that human beings have a set purpose here on earth;
that in everything of God's creation there is wisdom. There is
nothing of God's creation that does not have any wisdom. There
is  nothing  for  sport  or play and so therefore human beings
have a purpose, and that purpose has been elucidated for  them
in  the  teaching of Islaam. They were created to worship God.
A verse from the Qur'aan says that God says that  He  has  not
created human beings except to worship Him.  So therefore, the
essence of humanity is the same between male and  female,  and
they  also  share the same aim and that is to worship God. And
that is the most important issue in the  Islamic  culture  and
civilization.    You   know   that  the  Islamic  culture  and
civilization  is  rooted   in   religious   belief.   American
civilization is  rooted  in  what?    In  the  writings of the
founding fathers of the United States of America. It is rooted
in  the  Declaration  of  Independence,  the ideals which were
placed therein. It is rooted in the Constitution of the United
States. It is rooted in some of the arguments between monarchy
or democracy which were written by some of the  early  writers
or founding  fathers.  So it is rooted in a political thought.
Yes, it might have some traditions which go back  further  and
extend  to  certain ideas like in parts of Christianity and so
forth, but in its essence it is a  political  thought,  unlike
Islaam which is a religion in its essence.
 
The  civilization  of  Islaam  -  a civilization which is 1400
years old - is one which is rooted in religion.  For a  Muslim
the  greatest  aim  is  to serve God,to worship God alone, and
that is what the word Muslim means.
 
Muslim is not a  racial  description,  it  is  not  an  ethnic
category, Muslim   means   one  who  submits.    Islaam  means
submitting to the will of God - the  voluntary  submission  to
God - so Islaam is a religion of submission. Therefore, in the
most important aspect of the Islamic religion,  we  find  that
men  and  women share in the same aim and are expected to have
the same responsibilities, in that  men  and  women  are  both
required  or obligated to testify that there is none worthy of
worship but Allah alone - God alone - and that Muhammad is His
Messenger.   Men  and  women  are  both obligated to pray five
times a day, which is the second pillar of  Islaam.  They  are
obligated to fast the month of Ramadan.  They are obligated to
make pilgrimage  to  Makkah.    They  are  obligated  to  give
charity.  They  are  obligated to have the same beliefs.  They
are obligated to have the same type of morality and  the  same
type of code of conduct and  behavior.
 
Men  and  women  share  these essential ingredients of Islamic
behavior, which define a Muslim from a non-Muslim. And this is
of  extreme importance because it breaks from the tradition of
religions. For instance fifteen years before the birth of  the
prophet  Muhammad (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) who was born
around 560 CE we find that there was a gathering of bishops in
France  to  discuss  whether women possessed souls or not, and
that, if they do possess souls, what would be their purpose on
earth?  Was  it  to  worship God?  And if they worshipped God,
would they go to paradise?  In the end it  was  decided  that,
yes,  women do possess souls - which was a break from previous
tradition - but that their purpose was  not  just  to  worship
God, but also to serve men.
 
In Islaam, however,  the basis of submission is not that women
are submitting to men, but that men and women together  submit
to God.    So  therefore,  when  you  read the passages of the
Qur'aan, it becomes very clear that the  obedient  from  among
both  the  believing  men and women receive paradise, which is
the greatest aim and objective in a  Muslim's  life,  and  the
basis   of   that   civilization.   Likewise,  those  who  are
disobedient and who are renegades, and  who  do  not  want  to
worship  God also receive the same punishment whether they are
male or female. This is why throughout the  Qur'aan  you  find
the  wording  addressed  to both males and females. The Arabic
language like French has two types of verbs, one  representing
the feminine  and one the masculine.  So in the Qur'aan you'll
find both categories of the  human  race,  both  sexes,  being
addressed.   This you find over and over and over. There is no
need to now recite all these passages, but they are  there  if
anyone wants to know.
 
In  summary  we  found  three  bases: that they share the same
humanity, that they have the same aim on this earth, and also,
they  expect the same reward, which is the goal which they are
working for collectively as human beings. And this is a  break
as  I  said  from  the  previous religious traditions and also
political  and  social  understanding  prevalent   among   the
philosophers before  the coming of Islaam.  And as a result of
that, we find that Islaam accorded women rights which  perhaps
we  take  for  granted  now,  but were given by God to men and
women some 1400 years ago.  These rights like the right to own
property,  the right to dispose of property according to their
own wishes as long as they follow the laws of the religion  of
Islaam, which apply the same for men or women and the right to
certain what we would call  now  political  rights,  like  the
right  to  enter  into  a treaty with combatant, are something
very recent relatively speaking in the West.
 
One of the rights given by Islaam in the time of  the  prophet
Muhammad  (sallallaahu  'alayhi wa sallam) was that if a woman
gives a treaty to a  combatant  from  a  non-Muslim  attacking
force  - her treaty would be considered as was the case with a
female companion of the Prophet Muhammad (sallallaahu  'alayhi
wa sallam).  In the Christian church these companions would be
called disciples for instance, the disciples  of  the  Prophet
Muhammad are  the companions as they are called.  They were in
the hundreds and thousands  not  just  twelve  as  with  Jesus
Christ, and  there  are both men and women amongst them.  When
the  prophet  Muhammad  came  to  Mecca,  one  of  the   women
companions  by  the name of Umm Hani, who was an inhabitant of
Mecca and a believer  in  the  Prophet  Muhammad  (sallallaahu
'alayhi   wa  sallam),  accorded  certain  relatives  of  hers
protection that they would not be harmed. Her brother who  was
one of the main companions of the Prophet Muhammad and married
his daughter, Ali Bin Abi Talib,  wanted  to  execute  two  of
these  men who were known for harming the Muslims and fighting
against them.  So Umm Hani went to the  Prophet  Muhammad  and
complained  that  she  had  accorded  them  protection and the
Prophet  recognized  her  giving  protection  to   those   two
individuals.
 
This  is  what  we  might  call,  in  the  classification  and
terminology that we now use, a political right.  In the  sense
of according protection for another person during the state of
war is something which is relatively new in the West and was a
known   tradition   in  the  Islamic  world  1400  years  ago.
Likewise, in terms of what we might call public participation,
there  are  certain  acts  of worship which are public acts of
worship in Islaam, and there are certain acts of worship which
are private.    One of the public acts is the pilgrimage, when
men and women all make pilgrimage, and  this  is  one  of  the
pillars  of  Islaam. Likewise another public act of worship is
the two 'Eid prayers which occur twice a year, once after  the
pilgrimage and  once after the pass of Ramadan.  Men and women
both  participate in that publicly.  Likewise, we have a verse
which  shows that the social contract between men and women is
the same in Islaam.  This verse might  be  translated  as  the
following:   "And  the  believing  men and women are," what we
might translate as, "awliyaa" - the word in Arabic for friends
or  allies  or supporters of one another, "they" - meaning men
and women - "bid to that which is correct" i.e.  they  commend
that  which  is correct, "and they forbid that which is evil".
And this is a corrective process in society, removing evil and
commending  that  which  is  good.  And then "they perform the
prayer", both men and women,  "they  pay  the  alms",  or  the
charity  to  the  poor, "and they obey God and His Messenger."
And then God shows them the reward and  that  they  are  those
upon  whom  God  will  have  mercy  and  God  is  Almighty and
All-Wise.
 
So in this verse, we find that the social contract between men
and  women,  as  individuals in the society, is the same, that
they both go for the highest goal  of  bidding  or  commanding
that which is correct, forbidding that which is evil, and that
they share in the two major acts of worship,   which  are  the
prayer  and  giving  charity.  They  share  in the beliefs and
obedience  to  God  and  obedience  to  the  Prophet  Muhammad
(sallallaahu  'alayhi  wa  sallam) and likewise, they share in
the reward in the end of obtaining Allah's mercy.  This  is  a
very  important  concept,  which is in contradiction with what
the western tradition is upon today, and that is as I said  as
a result of the initial extreme of the Greek philosophers that
women did not share in  humanity.    As  the  result  of  that
extreme  another  extreme  occurred  -  at  least  the Muslims
consider it extreme - that there is no difference between  men
and women.
 
So  therefore,  the  idea  of  having genders - this is a term
which is not used in a biological sense, as we might  use  the
word  sex  in  a biological sense for male and female, but the
understanding today is that the traits that define maleness or
femaleness,  the  social traits and so forth are determined by
upbringing, culture, and environment  and  that  there  is  no
inherent  difference  in the way men and women think or act or
what their make up is and so forth. And that is why  they  use
the term gender.
 
This  extreme  resulted from the initial extreme that occurred
2000 years ago, when the Greek thought that the women did  not
posses humanity.    So as a result of this 2000 year processes
we now come to another extreme - at least this is what Muslims
would  say  -  this  extreme now is that men and women are the
same, that there is no difference.
 
Islaam, although confirming that men and women do share in the
same essence of humanity, also confirms that men and women are
different.  But  does  this  difference  mean  that  men   are
inherently good or women are inherently evil?  No. And this is
why when you look at one of the verses  in  the  Qur'aan  that
sheds light on this aspect, God says, recounting His creation,
that He is the One Who created the night, as it  envelops,  as
it  comes  - if you look at the horizon, it comes like a sheet
enveloping the horizon - and He is the One Who created the day
as  it comes bursting, shining, - that is how Sun rises and He
is the One Who created male and female.   And  then  the  next
verse  says,  verily,  what  you strive for - human beings are
into different ends, diverse ends  -  some  strive  for  God's
pleasure,  some strive for disobedience of God, some strive to
do good to humans, some strive to  do  harm,  different  ends.
But what  is the example here?  God mentions night and day and
then mentions male and female.   The  understanding  is,  yes,
night  has a purpose, and in the Qur'aan you always find verse
after verse, describing that night has  a  wisdom  behind  it.
And  also it tells humanity that had it been only night and no
day human beings could not live on earth.   And  this  is  now
shown  scientifically  that if it was only night and there was
no sunlight, certain hormones of body would  not  be  able  to
reproduce and  human  beings would die.  Life as we know it on
earth would not exist.  And  likewise,  day  has  its  wisdoms
behind  it.  But can one argue and say, that night is good and
day is evil? No, and no Muslim would believe that.    And  can
one argue  and  say  that  day is good and night is evil?  No.
Likewise, male and female also have their roles to play.   But
can  one  say  that the role of men is inherently good and the
role of women is inherently evil? No.  And  can  one  say  the
opposite  to  that  - the role of women is inherently good and
the role of men is inherently evil? No. But they both  have  a
role.
 
This  is  the  main contention now between western thought and
Islamic belief.    Western  thought  has  basically  accepted,
except  for  maybe  some few corners perhaps in the Vatican or
so, that men and women share in their humanity and  that  they
are the  same. Muslims have believed this for 1400 years.  But
the difference is that in western thought, as  a  reaction  to
the  initial thought that women did not share humanity fully ,
the argument is that the roles of men and women in society are
only defined by culture, environment and upbringing, therefore
there is really no true role for men  and  no  true  role  for
women  and  that  we  can  switch  this,  if we just teach the
society correctly.  But in Islaam there is a defined role  for
men and  a defined role for women.  Who is the one who defines
this role for men and women? It's their creator.  This is  the
major  if you want to use the term philosophical , even though
it is an inaccurate term in that sense, but we can just use if
for the  lack  of  better term,  philosophical, ideological or
theological difference between the two opposing arguments.
 
Now with that said, it is important to  understand  that  when
Islaam  gave  these  roles  to  men  and  women  alike, it put
responsibilities equal to obligations to both. I will give you
an  example for that: Islaam senses that women have the nature
of mother not by cultural tradition or by sociological  system
but  inherently are better in providing and taking care of the
offspring, that there  is  a  bond  there  which  goes  beyond
tradition.   A  psychological  bonding,  a  physical  bonding,
something which is more than just traditions of human  beings.
As  a  result  of  that it has placed greater responsibilities
upon women towards their children are then those of men.
 
At the same time, the obligations that children  have  towards
their mother in Islaam is greater than they have towards their
fathers, and this is why when the prophet Muhammad (pbuh)  was
asked  by  a man one was his companions "Who should I befriend
in this world?" The  prophet  Muhammad  (pbuh)  replied  "your
mother." And then the man asked a second time, and the prophet
replied your mother, and then  a  third  time,  and  again  he
replied  your  mother,  and  on the fourth time, he said "your
father".  Likewise in the Qur'aan we find that it tells  human
beings  that  your  mother  bore  you from one hardship to the
other hardship, talking about the labors and  difficulties  of
pregnancy  and  childhood,  and  then  fed  you for two years,
suckled you, and tells us  to  be  kind  to  our  parents  and
reminds us of our mother first before our fathers.
 
The  point is that even though it has defined a role for women
with the children which is different  than  the  role  of  the
father, at the same time it gives women honor and respect from
their children which is greater  than  that  received  by  the
fathers.  The fathers do receive respect and their honor, they
are not just thrown out of the picture, but  it  is  given  to
them and according to the degree of their responsibility.  And
likewise, because the mother inherently, not just  because  of
cultural  tradition,  has  something inherent which makes that
bond greater between her and her  child  then  the  male.  She
receives a greater honor and respect from the child and at the
same time she is required to give a greater obligation.
 
I only gave that as an example to show you that  while  Islaam
recognizes  differences  between the sexes, it does not accept
the concept that gender is just  an  issue  of  upbringing  or
cultural  traditions,  for  there  are inherent differences in
males and females, and as a result of that the obligations and
responsibilities  of  each  of  the  two  sexes  are together.
Imported from that is another matter that even though men  and
women  are  different,  they  are  not  in  opposition  to one
another, which is the basis of much of the western thought and
especially  of  feminist  traditions.  That there's a struggle
between men and women, "There is a battle of sexes", as it  is
sometimes  said  in  the  popular  sort  of  designation. This
doesn't exist in Islaam.  Men and women work in tandem ,  just
like  day  and night revolve, and you live in day time and you
live in night time.  You cannot live only in  night,  and  you
cannot  live  only  in  day,  likewise,  men and women are not
against one another, they are not pitted against  one  another
but  rather  they  share  in the same aim, the same purpose of
being, the same humanity.   They  have  different  roles,  but
these  roles  complement  one  another  and  are needed by one
another in order for the success  of  humanity,  not  in  this
world  but  also  -of  course  since  Muslims  believe  in the
hereafter- in the hereafter which is  the  ultimate  goal  for
Muslims.
 
Now,  I  would  like  to  make one final comment and then I'll
leave it  open   for   questions.      Let's   look   at   the
applicabilities of both of these programs.  We discussed a lot
of ideas, thoughts and beliefs and  historical  concepts,  but
when  they  are actually applied, which of the two view points
is more successful.  Which brings more bliss to humanity?   Is
it  the secular western view or is it the Islaamic view? And I
have a concrete example which I'd  like  to  share  with  you.
When  I  was  in Beijing this last summer for the UN 4th world
conference on the women, there was a platform for action which
was being discussed by the different nations and organizations
there.  The aim of the platform for  action  was  to  upraise,
uplift,  and to embetter the status of women around the world,
which are of course  noble  and  correct  aims,  there  is  no
contention  concerning  that.  The  platform  for  action  was
divided  into  different  areas  of  concentrations,  such  as
poverty, health, finances, conflicts and violence and so forth
and one of it was the girl child.  The 12th issue  of  the  12
concerned  areas  for the platform for action, the girl child,
the status of girls - future women - in the world today.   The
country  which  was hosting the conference, China is known for
the practice of killing girls.  The reason why is  because  of
their  population.  You can only have one child per couple and
Chinese by their tradition view males as  fewer  then  females
and so as a result they will usually kill the female child, in
hope that the wife gives birth to a boy.
 
This is an issue which exists and because the hosts  were  the
Chinese,  the  United  Nations  didn't really want to get into
this issue. They didn't want to talk about it because  it  was
not  politically  correct  to  address  that  issue  in China.
Moreover,  even  though  they  might   have   passed   certain
regulations,  platforms  for  actions  and certain commitments
which they have required of citizens of the world  to  follow,
they  at the end will see that perhaps in twenty-five to fifty
years the status of the world child  will  not  have  markedly
improved.
 
We  can  see  from other things, one of the major issues which
the United Nations was created for after World War II, was the
slaughter of so many million human beings, six million Jews in
Europe, and yet fifty years later, in the year of the fiftieth
celebration of the UN, a genocide has taken place in Europe of
the Bosnians. All the human rights, all of the declarations in
the  last  fifty years has not been able to change anything on
the ground.  Now when the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was sent  to
the Arabs, the Arabs had the same practice.  They used to kill
their girl children.  The  Arabs  killed  their  girls  for  a
number  of  reasons,  most of the time due to poverty. Being a
desert people without industry or any sort of means of  trade,
existence was  very  minimal.  And as a result, out of fear of
poverty they would kill their girl children,  and  they  would
bury them  alive.    This  is a fact which is mentioned in the
Quraan and was well known  during  the  time  of  the  prophet
Muhammad  (pbuh).  God condemns in the Quraan with verses, the
idea of killing of the girl child, the burying in the  ground,
and  also  the attitudes of the Arabs towards girls. One verse
in the Quraan says that "when he is given the good  news  that
his  wife  is  given birth" God calls it a good news, " - to a
female child, a  girl,  his  face  becomes  blackened  and  he
becomes  ashamed.  Will  he  hide the fact " that he has given
birth to a girl and not tell the people, because he  feels  it
as a  shame.    "Or will he bury it in the ground" , this is a
condemnation of the practice of the people.  And likewise  the
companions of the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) before they accepted
Islaam, many of them killed their girl children.  One man came
to  prophet  Muhammad  (pbuh)  and  said  I  killed  ten of my
daughters in my lifetime, will I receive paradise?   For  will
God  accept  my  repentance for this sin, now that I have left
this pagan religion of before, worshipping idols  and  killing
girl children  and so forth.  Within one generation, within 23
years this was how long the prophet was amongst the Arabs, the
practice of  killing  girls  ended.    It no longer existed in
Arabia.  And likewise, it didn't just stop like  that,  but  a
change  in  attitude came towards women, in educating them and
making morally upright people.
 
People receive no other reward, but paradise.  Again  that  is
the  greatest  aim for the Muslim and that is their motivation
and reason of being.  So Islam not  only  tried  removing  the
negative  aspect  of  murdering  girls,  but also included the
positive  aspect  of  educating  girls  and  raising  them  in
society,  and  this  brings  me  to  my  final  point. This is
something  of  course  which  we  can  look  at  the  previous
declarations  of  human  rights  or  whatever, irrespective of
whether these being true or false, but they have not been able
to achieve the aims which they have stated.  As the example of
human rights and the UN in Bosnia shows.
 
Fifty years after the creation of the UN, there is  no  change
in  Europe,  the  same land which killed six million Jews. The
same genocide of the Bosnians occurs fifty years later by  the
same  people who started the UN. They are unable to stop their
own from this matter, and with this I come to my final  point,
that I  would  like  to leave you with.  Islaamic civilization
unlike  any  other  civilization  is  based,  of   course   on
revelation,  but it is in its essence supported and founded by
women. The first person to believe in Prophet Muhammad  (pbuh)
was his wife Khadija, and it was through her money and through
her support of him ,  her  financial  backing,  and  also  her
encouragement  that the prophet was able to spread the message
of Islaam in his first year of prophecy. The  pagans  did  not
have  the ideas of freedom of religion, that you can take your
own beliefs. This was not practiced by the pagans of Arabia  -
they  saw this as an insurrection, they saw this as a changing
of their ways, so they sought to stop it out  by  torture,  by
killing and by all other means that they could.  And likewise,
they tried to stop the  Islaamic  revelation  this  tradition,
when  prophet  Muhammad  (pbuh)  converted  only the people of
Arabia. But as you know there are about one billion Muslims in
the  world.  They  are in every single continent of the world,
even in Beijing where the UN was convening. There was a mosque
there which is over a thousand years old. And the neighborhood
that lives there is about forty to  fifty  thousands  Muslims.
Now   the  kings  palace,  the  forbidden  city  in  front  of
Teyennaman square which many of you have heard of, is only 500
years  old.  This shows how the growth of Islaam and the sprit
of Islaam is not  just  a  middle  eastern  phenomenon  or  an
Arabian  phenomenon  but  extends  to  all  people  and  races
throughout the world.
 
Who is this teaching from, of  course  when  prophet  Muhammad
(pbuh)  died  after  twenty  three years Islaam only spread in
Arabia. This religion of Islam was basically spread by four or
five individuals who had the most in teaching. One of them was
the prophet's wife Aiesha.  She is  among  the  most  to  have
narrated his statements and likewise she is amongst the three,
four, five who have mostly given religious pronouncements, who
have  given  religious verdicts explained what these verses in
the Quraan meant or what the words of the prophet meant.
 
Look at any other civilization in the history of humanity, you
will  not  find  a  women  playing a role in its establishment
where  it  can  be  attributed  to   her   efforts   for   its
establishment.   The  Greeks,  look at the philosophers Plato,
Aerostatle and others -  all  were  men.    The  early  church
fathers  writings  were basically men and until today the idea
of women scholarship is limited in some areas of  the  church.
The  French  writers at the French revolution and Voltaire and
the Russians were men.  The founding fathers of    the  United
States  were  men,  and also other civilizations are basically
based upon men.  Islam is the only civilization which is known
by humanity where a leading input in terms of its transmission
and  establishment  was  based  upon  the  efforts  of  women.
Central  -  and this is an historical matter which is not open
to interpretation, it is a fact - these  are  the  people  who
transmitted these teachings these are the people who supported
it hereafter.  Those are just some  thoughts  and  impressions
concerning how  Islaam  uplifted women.

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